10 Ways to Flirt With Your Husband

This year my husband and I will be celebrating 28 years of marriage. It hasn’t always been a bed of roses, but I find more reasons to love him every single day. I wanted to write 10 Ways to Flirt with Your Husband to remind myself and all of you, to get creative and have fun. Marriage doesn’t have to be mundane or routine. Make flirting an intentional part of your daily routine and the bond you share with your spouse will grow even stronger. Flirting can be that secret love language that only you and your spouse share.

10 Ways to Flirt With Your Husband

Kiss each other good morning 

You may not consider a good morning kiss flirting, but it’s definitely purposeful and powerful. Kissing your husband before you get out of bed to start your day let’s him know he’s the first thing you think of when you roll over in the morning. And who knows where a quick kiss may lead? {wink wink}

Send a mirror message

One of the first places my husband heads in the morning is the bathroom. I use a dry erase marker or lipstick and write a fun good morning message on the mirror.

Invest in post-it notes 

They make the cutest post-it notes in all kinds of shapes and colors. Write a few flirty messages or words and stick them anywhere your husband would be surprised to find them. My favorite spot to stick notes is in the lunchbox and on the car steering wheel.

Text each other 

This one is pretty much a no-brainer. Most of us have our phones within reach most of the day. Be intentional and send a quick one or two word message a few times throughout the day. You can also use text messages to plan a date night or decide if it’s a night for an early bedtime.

Hold hands

Grab your husbands hand and give it a squeeze anytime you get chance.

Surprise him

Think outside the box and do something that will take your husband by surprise. I like to show up for lunch when he’s not expecting me, wash the car, order his favorite takeout, buy small gifts and let him sleep in. I am sure you can think of a few great surprises that will giver your husband the warm fuzzies.

Buy new lingerie 

Nothing says I love you like leather and lace. All kidding aside just buy something that makes you feel good and will make your spouse feel even better!

Sneak a quick touch 

Whether your at home, in the car or at a public outing, sneak up and touch your husband. That sudden jolt of contact between the two of you will let your spouse know that you are looking forward to what’s up next.

Talk about him

Brag about your husband to your friends, his friends and family. Shout out all the wonderful things you love about your husband. Letting others know how amazing your husband is shows how much your care about and appreciate all that he does for you.

ALWAYS kiss goodnight

There’s not better way to end your day then with intentional kisses. Don’t skimp on this kiss either. Make it long and passionate, enjoy those last few minutes with your husband before you drift off to sleep.

These are 10 of the ways I make an intentional effort to focus on my husband and our relationship. I want him to know he’s important and our marriage is a priority in my life. Try one or two of these flirts and see if it makes any changes in your love life.

Be intentional and have fun!

This post is part of the March Marriage Challenge 2016. You can connect and read all of the posts here.